Go back to basics with your schooling. Forget jumping for the moment and concentrate on getting him listening to you in all paces. Do polework, transitions, changes within the pace. Go on a few gentle hacks. Just enjoy riding him without worrying about jumping.

Have a few lessons on a different horse over jumps so you can get the feel for it again on a horse you trust. Then hop back on your horse and set up a couple of tiny cross poles. Do some flatwork schooling then pop him over the jumps then go back to flatwork. This will get him listening to you more and not just get madly excited when jumping, and should help you realise that jumping isn't a big scary event.

Don't feel pressured to do any big jumps if you don't want to. Concentrate on getting your horse calm and listening to you. Do some basic gridwork, use placing poles, jump from trot, have a few lessons on him. Take the opportunity to re-train him and get him more sensible whilst jumping - it will make your life easier in the long run and avoid falls in the future.

Hi there I have had a similar experience when I came off my horse last year at a show landing on top of the jump and cracking my ribs.  It has taken me till now to get my confidence back to jump even though I was absolutely dying to jump again. 

The best thing is to get your confidence back riding ride as much as you can but just basic flatwork until you feel you are confident in riding your horse again.  Once you are happy riding do some pole work and gradually put a small cross pole at the end of the trotting poles.  If you are anything like me once you actually do it you'll probably wonder why you were so worried but don't rush yourself take it at your own pace and once you have done the cross pole gradually increase the height as your confidence increases. 

It has taken me 8 months to jump my horse again although I wasn't scared to ride - it was just jumping that scared me.  Once I had done it once I never looked back.

Good luck xx

Poor you....

The best thing for you is to get back on straight away. ask a adult who knows about jumping if you are in the correct posisiton. Everyone falls off.

Look on the bright side....If you fall off 7 times you are a proper rider :D x

Hope i have helped

CheekyBunny14 xx