sorry i didnt read the question properly, ill re-answer. if you've got a great bond with a horse, then you've got a good bond basicly. even if the person is a better rider that doesnt really make a difference because it knows you. As long as you ride the horse comfortably and nicely and get along with the hrose theres no problem, because the horses doesnt know if you look pretty riding him or not? i would get someone else to help you out, dont worry about them being better at all, its not always about looking pretty. the pretty ones are always the nasty, hard handed riders anyway (most of the time) hope i helped this time x