I realise this isnt the sort of post that usually comes up here, but some of you may have been in the same situation or just have an idea to help me cope.
Gunna sound like a right kid but here goes:
I got my horse 4 months ago and we moved to a nice yard and I met some great friends. We rode together all the time, filmed each other, sleepovers you name it. They had known each other for ages before, but were very inclusive and spending days at the yard was so much fun!
We went on holiday for ages and when i got back i was so excited to see them all again and ride together! The same day i got back they announced that they had rented a yard and were going there, together. Its quite a small yard so its only them, all the friends together i hadnt even been thought of. in fairness the parents organised it, not gunna dwell on that. I was so upset!
No theyve moved and some are rubbing it in my face on purpose, the rest without knowing and its so tough :( im on my own on the yard and all these photos are coming up of them together.
Had my closest friend out of all of them for a sleepover and was saying how hard it would be to keep in touch...she said we'd see each other lots still and i felt reassured until i realised that everyone who is staying at the old yard (younger people who werent really friendss i thought) had all come to the new yard to see it. ive had no invitation at all.
sounds like im a jealous kid, but im not cos the yard being quieter is nice - gives me more chance to concentrate on getting my boy up to shape, im just so upset and missing it all i guess :/
Anyone any advice on how to cope?
just an idea of the fun we had :
They were all very sorry, now ones angry at me and i dont know why and ones blanking me. want to get over it but just dunno how!
Feeling down? Saddle up...