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CopperFieldLady

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Girls can be so bitchy!

I really think you begin to realise who your real friends are sometimes.

I used to be really close to this girl, but then another girl became friendly with her & went out and didn't invite me continuously, so I let them get on with it.

Ever since, it's been bitchy msn messages & sarky facebook status'. I give up! I can't stand it when people put things obviously about someone as their facebook status. It's so intimidating & makes you feel horrible. :( Sorry just a rant.

Half the time I think people get so jealous it's unreal, I'd never dream of saying something nasty about anyone in my msn name or facebook. So nasty :( xx

Luckily I have lots of lovely friends, who are amazing so don't need people like them. xx

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Sophii17

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Sophii17 says:

Re: Girls can be so bitchy!

Aww yeh girls can be right cows! Just rise above it and ignore it because they want you to react to it and if you dont they will get bored. Ive had this a few years back but its sooo horrible :(

Topaze Clover & Oscar <3

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*duskyteddy*

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*duskyteddy* says:

Re: Girls can be so bitchy!

 yep, couldn't agree more

hence why horse's are so much better and horses have bought me my 5 closest friends

Gemma, Hannah, Elise, Stephanie and Hannah

Thats all I need :)

x

Our lives begin to end; the day we become silent about the things that matter.

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JustMe..x

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JustMe..x says:

Re: Girls can be so bitchy!

Girls are really bitchy. All through high school I had a best friend, we were exactly the same as well both horse crazy, lived at each others houses even have the same name. And then I met my boyfriend who at the time I was starting to chat to and get close to, and I asked her for her advice and she was like no way dont go for him etc etc and ALL my other friends were like yeah hes such a nice guy lalalala. So anyways I started seeing him for a couple of months and then we started going out. Nothing changed mine and her friendship we still went out basicly every night having a good time the weekend we did drink alot. And then prom night she left early, and the day after that she started having ago at me because apantly I had been slagging her off at prom when id never ever do something like that .. she was my best friend. Then she got more of my friends invloved and in the end the next friday night I had about 20girls ringing me threatening me down the phone having ago at me etc which wasnt fair at all because she was my best friend and she should have taken my word that I wasnt slagging her off she should have known I wouldnt do something like that. Anyways now to this day about a year and a half ago we havnmt spoken since. and the girls that rung me everytime i see them they just give me daggers.. if looks could kill id be long gone by now lol. Plus she couldnt even tell me what was apantly said? So I have no idea. I do miss having a friend like her though, but then i went to college and met sooo many new friends and just getting on with life now.

I really wouldnt worry about them girls. Theyl get over themselves soon enough :) xx

x..Maisie and Me..x You are a great champion. When you ran, the ground shook, the sky opened and mere mortals parted. Parted the way to victory, where you'll meet me in the winner's circle, where I'll put a blanket of flowers on your back.

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PonieRaver

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PonieRaver says:

Re: Girls can be so bitchy!

I've dealt with the facebook status thing before: one of my "friends" but

"HONOR IS OFF MY XMAS CARD LIST! WHAT A BIATCH!"

Everyone just commented on it asying she was immature - we're 14 - a Xmas card doesnt really matter. Thing is, like the day after she gave me a Xmas card.

Boys tend not to bitch so much cos I think they're scared of getting beaten up wether girls tend to not be as violent.

There are probably tons of other people out there who love you and don't want to put silly things about you on social netwroking sites so dont worry about these silly "friends" who do!

Love my pony Harvey sooo much! Can't believe jodhs closed!! =[ xx

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SaltwaterEquation

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Re: Girls can be so bitchy!

I remember once this girl who i was very close friends with decided one day she hated me (LOL!) and she goes "WELL YOUR NOT GETTING A FLUFFY CHRISTMAS CARD" all i could do was laugh... hahaha :P no when ever someone says something that annoys me i just think of that ... muahahaha

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CopperFieldLady

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Re: Girls can be so bitchy!

Thanks guys, looks like we all experience it, and we just gotta put up with it. I'm so pleased I have all my other friends and all you guys (:

I really love this forum! xxx

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andyjones

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andyjones says:

Re: Girls can be so bitchy!

jealousy is like a illness, you can only feel sorry for them there not worth bothering youself over.

andy :0)

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pegasus*

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pegasus* says:

Re: Girls can be so bitchy!

 If they are continuing to be really awful, that's cyber bullying and you should report it.

I used to have these 2 girls who I thought were friends, but they started saying horrible things to me and it got worse and worse and finally got a bit out of hand (to say the least!) and I wished I'd done something about it sooner. So don't feel silly, get something done about it.

 

Keep the moral high ground, keep your chin up!

May your haynet always be full. Life is not measured by how many breaths you take, but by the number of times that take your breath away!

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Chimp

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Chimp says:

Re: Girls can be so bitchy!

You're so right, for some reason girls seem to do this sort of thing. You'll notice they have to gang up to do it though.

We didn't have computers or mobile phones when I was young. They used to wait for me and follow me to school, pushing and slapping me. It went on for ages and ages I don't think I was even 10 when it started and these girls were nearly at high school!!! Pathetic really. I

I lost it one day and thumped and kicked the pair of them, they were so shocked they never did it again, It happened in front of a teacher too so I think they got a proper bollocking.

Then a boy decided to take up the challenge he's still apparently an err errm 'twit' shall we say, he used to hit and kick me and take my stuff. One day I chased him all the way to school and pinned him up against the wall and yup gave him a good pasteing too.

Someone elses dad had been teaching him how to punch. as in proper boxing punches and he decided to try them out on me!! nearly knocked me out. I nearly did him a serious injury, banged his head off the coat pegs.

I guess Id got used to being a target (funny name and apparently I spoke posh, oooh and I liked horses!!!!) and just reacted! I got told off for that one, till one of the other boys went and told the head what had happened.

Thing is you get these sorts of people at all age groups, my boss is one and another girl in the department. Its bloody awful to deal with, but I guess Im trying to say you aren't alone and even at my age (40) you still get sad, pathetic, envious, green eyed, arses who need to bully others in a sad and pathetic effort to make them selves feel better. At the end of the day it is them that have the problem not us well adjusted confident individuals who they are trying to drag down to their level.

And that is my personnel opinion based on a fair amount of experience so there

Hugs to those of you suffering at the hands and keyboards of these sad individuals.

You are better than them

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bexc3

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bexc3 says:

Re: Girls can be so bitchy!

Yep girls can be awful, im really pleased i dont have to put up with that anymore, i hope im at an age where my friends wouldn't behave like this but you never know. Its funny cos one of my good friends on the yard, who i also work with, is 6 years younger then me and she can get a bit funny if i ride with other people. I think she's a bit insecure and this makes her a bit jealous when i get really firendly with other people. Its wierd cos ive got loads of good friends at the yard and she knows this but occasionally she must feel threatened. We dont fall out over it or anything, i just dont make a big deal out of it.

 

If i was you i'd stick to your other firends cos who needs friends like that, they just sound pathetic and they need to get a life. x

bexc

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