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Emma_Sassy

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Emma_Sassy says:

relationship ~ its complicated

so i went out wid this boy thats 2 yrs older than me, about a year ago and everyone at skl commented on how we were the cutest couple, we were always there for eachother and we always had a luagh and wen it was just me and him well the moments were special. things started 2 go wrong.. he cheated on me, we went out on/off for 3 months, there was a time we were just mates and then he just liked me 2 kiss and that, saying i was fit! soo now we're kind of back on, he says he loves me and wants me! i went 2 meet him about an hour ago but before he arrived i just chickened out and legged it, i ran 2 my horses stable and just cuddled up 2 him and cried! i love this boy and he makes me feel special but its just something about him that makes me fink im not good enough 4 him. my m8s say 2 4get him coz hes always messing me about and i do want 2 get over him but i dont!

 

sorry just had 2 get if off my chest, didnt have anyone else 2 talk 2!

any help would b great as i really dont no wot 2 do! i dont no wether 2 get rid of him or what!

 

help!!!!!!!!!

 

.x.GilbysMix~TheOneThatStoleMyHeart.x. Fantasy~not a minute goes bye tht i dnt fink of u

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Ilovejumping97

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Re: relationship ~ its complicated

Hey,

I'm just gonna say this straight, I've had this before...too many times. I'd just forget him shug, he isn't really worth it, and if he's stressing you out, putting pressure on you etc FORGET HIM before you do what I did. I just completely lost myself, I was crying and I couldn't stop. I cried myself to sleep! Sounds like he's a total prat, just leave him and ignore him. He's obviously running to you when all his 'other' girlfriends don't want him anymore, just so he can say he has a girlfriend.

But that is just what I think and my opinion, it really is up to you what you do, but yeah I have been there, and when it all ends it hurts.

My PM box is always open if you ever want to have a chat :) x

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Divasmum

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Divasmum says:

Re: relationship ~ its complicated

The cheating so and so. You are too good for him not the other way around. Ditch him and find someone who deserves you.

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Louise198989

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Louise198989 says:

Re: relationship ~ its complicated

Ok if i ever knew a guy had cheated on me i would NEVER return to him!!! He sounds like my ex, a commitment phobe, not knowing what he wants one minute then running to your side the next-see my post on broken up with bf. Don't put yourself in the place where I am now, get out while u have the sense. x

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Emma_Sassy

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Emma_Sassy says:

Re: relationship ~ its complicated

heyy dw im on over him! he told me 2 choose between him and my horse, Gilby! well obviously Gilby won! because no matter what hes always there and i no hes not gonna cheat on me! well ok mayb with the mare in his field but thts a differnet kind of love! lol x

.x.GilbysMix~TheOneThatStoleMyHeart.x. Fantasy~not a minute goes bye tht i dnt fink of u

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Miss Moss

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Miss Moss says:

Re: relationship ~ its complicated

Yeah I would get rid of him hunny, ive been there and done lol. I went out with a guy for  5years and he cheated on me and messed me round for 4 of them, I wish I had the guts to chuck him back then but I thought id never fine another bloke!!!! Well I had great time being single for months totally forgot about men, well part from the odd one chasing me and I tell you I didnt have keep them chasing lol but it was nice. Finelly meet my now boyfriend and we just spent lots of time getting to know each other but he is a dream come true for me, we enjoy the same things and we have such a good laugh, so please get rid you'll find someone else better when you least expect it!!!! xxxx

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x-pony-sweetie-x

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Re: relationship ~ its complicated

Good, I'd dump him. Especcially if he made me choose between him and my horse- horses will always be more important to me and if a boy can't see that he isn't worth it. You deserve so much better than someone who will cheat on you. x

Glory <3 PONY WEEK 2009!!!

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